My advice to Effie — find out why this man cares so much that you are a virgin. On my end of things, it doesn't bother me. No one should suffer through bad sex in dating, let alone a marriage. Remember guys are physically aroused. She is virgin still because she respects her body and she wants to live the moment with someone who loves her just as equally as she loves him!
Sex after marriage is as good as you setting yourself up for mediocrity.
Do Men Prefer Virgins?
Three things would happen; she gives in and loses the virginity to him, she doesn't give in and he cheats on her to get the icing from somewhere else or they break up. These guys say they like to put the girl first and make sure she is okay with the situation before going any further. My dearJuju is so damn right. It is entirely possible to have a sexual experience the mere memory of which may nauseate you or make you shudder. We are all humans, with the same lasting destiny of death after life…. A recent girlfriend of mine was a virgin. Evan Marc Katz Are you sick of men not making an effort?