I became a zen master of the koan "He who cares least wins. It was not until we were sitting down having lunch that I realised he had been squinting into the low winter sun. Over the next year I went on dates with about 10 different men, most of them one-offs. But listen up: Toggle secondary navigation Pets News Newsletter Follow. My "program," as one candidate told me, is too filled up for most men.
If there are lessons to be learned from the dud one, be sure to apply them at the earliest opportunity.
Internet dating at 40 - and a baby at 43
Candi-date Number 2 would say. Reuse this content. Meanwhile, my house was becoming headquarters for my nephew's friends, who'd visit Frankie and monitor him closely on his shaky road back to health. Pets News Newsletter. Timeless Wisdom on Being a Man. Then there was Porsche Man, who I only spoke to on the phone.