Insist on a rendezvous and listen sympathetically to what your friend has to say, explain how bad the situation has left you feeling and try to establish new and workable ground rules for how you can return to being soul mates. If you love your best friend far more than her ex, do the right thing and find another guy. When you love her more than him. You're saying, "screw you and your silly emotions, I've got to get laid. Finally, what will you do if you break up?
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If this is the case, you'd be missing out on years of potential passion if you passed up on this girl for the sake of sparing your friends' feelings. But sometimes, you have to do inadvisable things for love. Try bringing up his name and see how she reacts. At the very least, wait a while so she can move on. Don't do this ever, but especially not if his last girlfriend is the person you're going rock climbing with Sunday. Dan Bacon is a dating and relationship expert.